Showing posts with label January. Show all posts
Showing posts with label January. Show all posts

01 February, 2023

...January : The List...recap

 Farewell, January.
I wish I could say it was all that and more...but...ummm...
We spent more than half of it sick and/or recovering.
So yeah...best laid plans and all that.

Despite that, we did manage to check off a good portion of our January Bucket List and I'm totally ok with rolling some of these unchecked boxes over into February, without a backward glance.

And, to be fair, our tangle with the 'Tripledemic' might actually have created time/opportunity for us to check off  few boxes we might not have, such as:
~dessert for breakfast
~sleeping in and eating breakfast while watching cartoons
~and having breakfast for dinner...which happened frequently at the height of my illness! 

We had just a few sprinkles of snowfall, here and there.  Not enough to settle in and hunker down, but one day afforded us just enough snow to get Henri on his little blue sled and race him and down the hill...before the rain melted it all away. I'm hopeful that February will bring us a good dollop of the white stuff and we'll be able to really enjoy some outdoor play.


A few trips both at the start and at the end, meant we got in our fill of both thrifted treasures and mouthwatering eats!  I've been quite lucky, lately, at the local thrift stores...miraculously finding just the right thing or a pretty good replacement...particularly when it comes to therapeutic aids (pt/ot) for my youngest. 

We went to the Morris Museum, which was both a win and a loss: the current rotating exhibitions were definitely not our scene and the permanent exhibitions seem to have lost their luster.  But, the train display did not disappoint!  Henri's deep in his train phase (a standard of boyhood, I should think) and couldn't get enough!  Afterwards we tried out a new-to-us Morristown restaurant, Town and were blown away by our appetizer feast!  Gorgeous platings of fresh, decadent flavors. Pricey (by our budget), but well worth it for a delicious food adventure!

 New signs! Communication, in any form, is a win!

The kitchen was my playground this month, as I tried a few new dishes and made up others to use our pantry leftovers.  I did treat myself to a new cookbook...Danielle Walker's 'Healthy in a Hurry', to add to my collection of her work.  Great gluten-free and dairy-free options for this family!

 If the kitchen was my playground, it was Johannes' prison-yard.  Still working on getting him to be more confident with tools and with heat!

 Now granted, we're regular thrifters...but we did take time out to visit some new ones and brought along our lunches for the road.  Something for everyone: new toys, new books, and a treasure-box jammed full of pieces of my vintage glass collection!  The best part?  We more than made back what we spent, on eBay.

We had the perfect day, hiking along the South Mountain Fairy Trail and on to the waterfall...a first hike for Henri, who enjoyed almost every moment!  The fairy homes are beginning to really decline, but somehow that makes them more magical....I think...as they disappear into their surroundings.

 Johannes and I stopped off at Echo Lake Park, for another meander down to the falls, and a frantic gathering of pinecones just as the first raindrops began to fall. 

 We had quite the mess-making adventure the following day, slathering our pinecones in almond butter and birdseed.  Neither boy can tolerate sticky hands, so you can well imagine not only the mess, but the angst as we rolled sticky cones in seed!  The birds and squirrels have made their thanks known!

Henri's scissor skills still leave much to be desired, but he's making good progress.  I still can't get a handle of which handedness he prefers.

Johannes and I had THE BEST NIGHT...just the two of us, at Outback.  The food?  Eh...as expected.  The conversation? Next Level Awesome!  What a delight it is, to be able to drop our designated titles/roles...and just sit down to a meal together as genuine best friends.

The freezer is well stocked (minus cookies!) with all manner of goodness for those days when we're running.  I love batch cooking, and filling up the larder.  This month, I made two different chilis, pulled pork, and 3 different soups.  We're definitely stocked for the month ahead!

Henri and I have been enjoying evening storytime at our local library this month. We'd begun going early in the fall (after attending virtual programs for the past few years) but gave up and gave in to feelings of defeat, when he couldn't sit still for the program. He's definitely a mover...and a shaker!  I resolved to go back and just let him experience it in his own way.  Thankfully, the librarian who leads the program is very understanding of littles who need to move.  Phew!

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Okay, I'm out of time.
I have to say (or write) that this recap format does NOT work for me, but it was the best I could do in the little time I had available.
We've had a really hard time getting back to any semblance of a predictable schedule, which means I don't have time to write. :(  





04 January, 2023

...leftovers...

 Yes, yes, we all get it...
We carry the past along with us into the present.
But...
really...
2022?

Here I am, making plans and setting intentions, and the door I closed firmly behind me swings wide open...creaking, shrieking hinges and all...

"Settle"...it intones.
"Settle down and simmer. Settle in....you're not done yet."

That healing?  Welp...
My eldest has pinkeye...and a viral congestion "thing" and we've had to hit pause again. 
Small space living means any illness requires some form of self-sequestering...and halving our living space.  Which, with a rambunctious and ever-curious toddler, is...definitely settling for less.
Ugh!

Thankfully, today...day one...the weather is GLORIOUS!  So, Henri and I are taking full advantage of open windows and open spaces (outside) while Johannes huddles up in his blanket of misery, confined to his room and blissfully excused from any technology-limits.  He's settled in comfortably, with all the comforts of computer~3d printers~Keurig...perfectly prepped for the long haul.  Now he just has to settle down enough to get those eye drops in!

And I?
I'm settling down...down...down...and setting aside my to-do list for today.
Settling in for what's likely to spread like wildfire.  

I'm settling for acceptance that there will always be things that come along to trip us up but healing as an active process means moving through them without falling.

So here I am... 
2023 ...
with last year's lesson on settling learned...no matter how many tests you decide to send my way!









03 January, 2023

...January : The List...

You've only to look around my home to know I am a girl who loves a good list.
My "workspace"...a traveling stack of planners and papers and scraps...has lists for every purpose.
Actually, now that I write it out...
it's not the lists I love...
it's the checking off of items that brings me joy.
✔✔✔

This season of parenting...of a gap-year young adult + a rambunctious, frustrated toddler + my stepchildren (long distance though they may be) has made the need for lists far greater than before.
I need the lists.
I need them to keep track
 ❒ of tasks
❒ of details
❒ of dates
❒ of all the things I've fallen so far behind on.

I need the lists to remind me of the things I can do...should do...will do...and, yes, have done.
I need the lists to remind me that whatever it was that I couldn't get to today, by want of time or money or energy or silence or space, I might be able to tackle tomorrow...and that's okay.
Those lists are the ones that allow me to feel like my feet are on solid ground in the midst of the maelstrom of life.

But those are not this.
Oh, no.

This list...this is my January list.
My first list in what I intend to make 12 of...a "bucket list" for every month this year, for our family:


❒ hike the South Mountain Fairy Trail and make a fairy home from natural findings

❒ gather pinecones and make birdseed/nut butter pinecone feeders

❒ go on a rock hunt for round white rocks and build snowmen with them

❒ cocoa and marshmallows around the firepit

❒ "spraypaint" pictures in the snow with spraybottles of water/food coloring

❒ sledding

❒ fill the freezer with chilis and soups

❒ make snow-eis

❒ make spaghetti-eis with vegan ice cream

❒ explore one of NJ's waterfalls in the winter...look for ice flows

❒ walk the beach and gather shells, rocks, seaglass...bundle up!

❒ meet a friend for coffee...or sushi

❒ visit a museum and make a meal of appetizers at a new restaurant

❒ teach Henri 3 new signs

❒ try a new recipe

❒ play sous-chef to Johannes for one dinner prep

❒ go on a low-spend thrift-jaunt daytrip: pack sandwiches, snacks and beverages and only spend money on thrifted treasures

❒ have a "dessert for breakfast" day

❒ set up the Christmas tree outside and hang it with edible ornaments for our wildlife neighbors

❒ work on scissor skills with Henri and cut out paper snowflakes for the windows

❒ go out to dinner with just Johannes

❒ go out to lunch with just Henri

❒ sleep in one morning, and eat breakfast while watching cartoons

❒ drive to a desolate spot and stargaze at night, with hot cocoa of course!

❒ attend a library program

❒ read a book with Johannes...engage in book club discussion about it

❒ have breakfast for dinner

❒ plan a future overnight trip

❒ make "care packages" for each other

❒ explore a 'new to us' NJ town

❒ install a new shelf in Johannes' room

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Let's check back in on the 31st and see how many boxes we ✔ off!